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Reminding Alzheimer's Patients About Things they Forget

What to Do When an Alzheimer’s Patient Keeps Forgetting Small Things 1. Stay Calm and Avoid Correcting Repeatedly pointing out forgotten details can cause anxiety or embarrassment. Gently repeat information without frustration Avoid phrases like “I already told you” Reassure them instead of correcting them Your calm response helps prevent emotional distress. 2. Use Visual and Written Cues Memory aids work best when they’re simple and visible. Place sticky notes or reminder cards in key areas Use labels on drawers, doors, and cabinets Keep a daily schedule or whiteboard with important tasks Set alarms for meals or medications Pictures often work better than words. 3. Create Strong Routines Routine reduces the need to remember. Do the same activities at the same time every day Keep commonly used items (keys, glasses, phone) in the same place Avoid unnecessary changes When habits take over, memory becomes less critical. 4. Break Information into Small Pieces Too much information at once can be overwhelming. Give one instruction at a time Use short, clear sentences Pause and allow time for processing Simple communication reduces confusion. 5. Redirect Instead of Repeating If they ask the same question over and over: Answer calmly the first few times Then gently redirect attention to another activity Use reassurance: “You’re safe. Everything is taken care of.” This often reduces repeated questioning. 6. Keep the Environment Supportive A memory-friendly space makes daily life easier. Reduce clutter Keep important items visible Use contrasting colors to make objects easier to spot A calm environment supports better functioning. 7. Encourage, Don’t Test Memory Avoid asking questions that feel like quizzes. Instead of: ❌ “Do you remember where your glasses are?” Try: ✅ “Your glasses are on the table.” This preserves dignity and confidence. 8. Use Technology When Appropriate For early to moderate stages: Phone reminders or talking clocks GPS trackers for safety Medication dispensers with alarms Technology should support independence, not replace human care. 9. Focus on Feelings, Not Facts Even when facts are forgotten, emotions remain. Offer reassurance Validate feelings: “I can see this is frustrating.” Use gentle touch and eye contact Feeling understood matters more than being correct. 10. Take Care of Yourself as a Caregiver Repetition is exhausting — it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Take breaks when possible Share caregiving responsibilities Join support groups or talk to professionals Patience grows when caregivers are supported. Bottom Line Forgetting small things is part of Alzheimer’s, not stubbornness or lack of effort. By adapting communication, using routines and reminders, and responding with empathy rather than correction, you can reduce frustration and create a calmer, more supportive daily experience for both of you.

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21 Mar 2023

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